A Little Bit About Me
Bismillah
I am very serious about getting married & going about this process in the right / halal way. My wali is involved immediately, having access to all my conversations with prospects.
Desire a loving, life-long Islamic marriage. Must be currently ready. Timeline is 1-2 months
Looking for someone who, like me, is a practicing Muslim who holds Islam close to his heart, & strives sincerely to be more beloved to Allah, & to uphold good character & purity of heart.
People often describe me as kind, thoughtful, direct, understanding, feminine, sensitive. I prioritize my own well-being & peace, & like to be peaceful & caring to others. I love animals and nature. I’m very keen on hygiene, holistic health, natural living.
I have some medical conditions which I’m often told are not easily known by my appearance. They do cause me some issues though. It is vital that my future husband is abundantly patient, understanding, accepting, accommodating, supportive, and loves me as I am without complaint.
For a brief overall understanding for now; I get tired easily & also have pain. So I have to chill & rest a lot between activities & going out, as much as I still enjoy & can go out & do fun activities.
I also get easily stressed and overwhelmed, which affects my physical health as well, so I must do as much as I can to keep very low stress.
I sometimes wear earplugs or sunglasses in loud or bright places to manage sensory overload.
I may sometimes have to leave places earlier than anticipated, cancel plans, or only plan to go for a couple hours if my health is acting up.
And I find it difficult to understand much indirect communication, so I am very direct & also interpret people this way. Can discuss more in detail later. But this is a good overview of anything that may be relevant to a prospect.
For myself, I am against ever having children. I also won’t take drugs or keep foreign objects in my organs as birth control, so, condoms will be a must.
Note I’m only interested in a husband who will be always the sole provider, provide comfortably, & do so happily. I’d like a masculine, loving, caring, giving, affectionate, protective husband I can give all my love to, care for, listen to, follow his lead in good faith, support eachothers dean, be eachothers peace & best friends.
Also note, I am currently locked in a lease for a luxury apt costing 6,390 to buy out of, & my current expenses here including rent total a minimum 3k monthly.
So naturally, since I cannot abandon my lease, a prospect must be able & willing to manage either expense, depending if we will plan for me to relocate, or to stay in Pittsburgh.
I am open to later having a cheaper apartment if it is nice. There are equally nice apartments for less depending on the area, in Pittsburgh and beyond.
I’m vegetarian / mostly vegan.
I don’t expect my husband to be. Boycotting is a must!!!
I will not sponsor a visa.
I am open to moving abroad to a developed country, not hot, healthy environment, and with good healthcare / reproductive rights.
“Her money is her money, his money is our money.”
All members of a household are equally responsible for household duties (to the best of their ability)
A wife has to “obey” her husband when it comes to matters he already has rights for and her protection. Nothing else. Simply, spouses both equally must obey Allah swt in the rights they’ve been given over each other. With love, mercy, and care. And spouses have more right over eachother than anyone else after Allah.
I am most likely to respond to thoughtful messages which also acknowledge my bio (since many do not read)
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